3 Reasons Why You Should Travel With Friends – At Least Once

So Part 2 of my ‘At Least Once’ series is about travelling with your mates. A lot of people in my experience only travel one way, alone/on tours/with SO. But a format which seems to be oddly neglected post-university/collage years is the friends trip.

Actually completing the friends trip that is. Every group of friends has had The Plan. It goes something like this:

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However, grab three or four of your most awesome friends and actually GO on the trip, because….

1. While I will generally travel solo to any destination heading to Turkey a few years ago I had a few concerns. However, Turkey fitted in nicely with the plans I had to go visit my Swedish friends and four of us decided on a two week Turkish adventure. Having been to Turkey I would not hesitate to go back solo, and this experience is still one of the best I have had. Travelling with a group of friends is probably the best way to explore a destination you aren’t quite confident enough to venture to on your own. It’s kinda like an organised tour but with people you already like!

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2. It’s a totally different experience. Walking around bazars on your own is awesome, you find amazing things and spend as long as you like there. With a group though you go looking for things that you wouldn’t have yourself. When it comes to food there’s no shame in eating alone, but with a group you can eat family style aka the best style– and eat a small amount of all of the things. You can travel by taxi, depending on the size of your group, for an affordable amount rather than having to take out a personal loan. And you can go out without the half-thought of ‘what if I end up the weirdo loner at the bar’ because you got your crew.

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3. Travelling with your friends can actually be REALLY fun. Everyone had heard horror stories of ‘that time a girl I know had a fight with all the people she was travelling with and ended up stranded in Thailand’ or ‘he was the only one who didn’t want to spend every night in bars popping MDMA and had a terrible time’. Lesson here is – choose the friends you go away with. When you pick right, you are in an awesome destination with some of your favourite people.

3* Bonus point – you can get photos of yourself travelling that aren’t selfies for once!

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The pros of group travel, when done right, are immense. So make the effort, make The Plan work, and go somewhere awesome with you nearest and dearest.

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Why organised tours are the answer! [sometimes]

Now, you may have garnered from my last ‘organised tour’ post that I am not a huge fan of organised tours – and you would be half right.

 

Half because I don’t really like being herded around, and because I think that tours in Europe are unnecessary. But what happens if you want to travel somewhere less accessible than Europe? Somewhere the tourism isn’t as developed? Or maybe, as in my case, your mother turns an odd shade of purple when you suggest visiting India as a solo female…

 

Group Tours in Challenging Countries

Are you 17-70? (or a spritely 80? Or more?)

Are you concerned about travelling in a challenging country?

Do you like the idea of night trains and tuk-tuks?

 

Pros:

  1. Local Guides = Peace of Mind. In countries where cancellations are common, transport is confusing, or English is far from widely spoken, a local guide is an incredible resource.
  2. Best of the best. Similar to “getting a lot in”, because these local guides work almost constantly, they know what attractions can be a flop. When we were in Jaipur we had a packed day, and we were all heading to the Palace of the Winds, we were told to look at the gorgeous façade and move on because the interior is just not as mind blowing. Some of the others and I took this advice, while some went to the palace interior and were somewhat disappointed. Obviously this won’t be true for everyone, but I for one was glad I took the advice and had an afternoon exploring the markets instead.
  3. Safety Net. I will admit, I was glad in India to have a group of people I could rely on to be there. When I was originally planning a solo trip to India I was sure I would be ok, but I was nervous about certain elements – the night train I needed to take, Holi, etc. having a group of people to catch the night train with, having someone to organise the Holi party, and just generally knowing that there are people close by who are basically guaranteed to want to do the same things as you – it’s a safety net, and I was glad for it.
  4. Dipping of the Toe. I took a tour in Vietnam, and I had an amazing time. Having experienced Vietnam in this way I know – categorically – that I would go back alone, and for an extended time. I can’t wait to re-visit Vietnam, it is easily one of my favourite places I’ve been.

Cons:

  1. An awful lot…again. Like tours in Europe I feel that companies try and fit too much in. Even as part of a larger tour I felt that eight days in India was far too little. I mean yes, we had a night in Delhi, but we walked around for five or six hours and went to dinner – not what I would call comprehensive.
  2. The cost. You can do it yourself in India (and most of Asia for that matter) for far less than the $90 a day I spent on my tour. I, however, worked the system and got 25% off my tour, so the money was less of an issue for me.

 

My experience:

I went on my first small group tour to Vietnam, I always say that my going to Vietnam was fate. I was talking with a friend about how much I wanted to go to Vietnam, but just didn’t have the money or time. Whaddayaknow ten minutes later I get a Scoopon travel email advertising nearly 60% off – the cost of the tour, including accommodation in really nice hotels and transport, was less than the cost I estimated for three weeks of budget accommodation. It was the quickest decision I ever made – I bought it, booked it, bought flights and insurance – eight month in advance. As I have said, I adored Vietnam and I will be visiting solo again. My India tour eventuated because as I said, my mother had a nervous breakdown when I told her I was going alone. I think this is fair, India is a more challenging destination than many. I don’t regret the tour decision, however for the Nepal portion of my trip – I would return alone in a heartbeat. I will be going to India again, and it will probably be with a tour.

 

Conclusion

I think it is pretty clear that I think pretty highly of tours in developing countries.

As you can see I find far fewer ‘cons’ with tours in developing countries than in Europe. You will notice that I don’t bring up the strict timetable as a con for tours here- that’s because in my experience with Geckos Tours, the timetable is a mixture of planned activities, optional activities, and free time. I also didn’t raise the issue of not getting out and about with the locals, with these tours in developing countries having people from a similar background to you is comforting – and you aren’t overwhelmed, ten to sixteen people in your group is very different to forty or fifty.

Obviously there will be people out there that still feel that no country is too challenging to ‘resort to a tour’ (insert snide half smile and nasal laugh here) and I say to those people in general, what I said to the individual who said that to me when I decided I was going to India on a tour. It’s not their travel, it’s your travel. You don’t necessarily have the network of travel buddies to meet up with at various points in India, you don’t necessarily have the life experience that makes you confident to wander the streets of Jaipur alone – and you’re not so pretentious to pretend that you do in order to please a virtual stranger. [boom!]

If you’re confident enough and you’re experienced enough to do it alone, and you actually want to do it alone – then go for it! Solo the fuck out of that country. But if you read this list and think that doing it with a tour sounds fun, fits your style, or soothes your mothers heart palpitations – then google it, research it, deal check it, and book it!

Here I am – pay attention to me!

This is the standard introduction piece – who I am, what I want, and why you should check back for my next post.

Who am I? My name is Sam, I am a 22 year old Australian girl. I am, in 2014, having a travelling/working year between my honours and masters degrees. I currently have red hair, but this is subject to change.

What do I want? I want to write about travel: my travel, your travel, travel concepts, travel photography, travel woes, travel lists… And I don’t want to just talk at you about travel, I want to use the experiences I have had to help out anyone looking for tips. In essence, I am huge travel nerd – I just want to create somewhere to talk about how awesome this planet is.

I will also be posting photographs of the amazing places I have been to, as well as the incredible food I eat – in essence, travel porn.

Exhibit A (places)

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Exhibit B (food)

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Why should you check back? Because if you’re the type of person who Googles travel writing, you’re the type of person who will want to know where I’ve been and where I’m going next!  Who knows? I may have the perfect secret to travelling with just a carry on, (I seem to do ok). Or maybe I’m independently wealthy and will give out huge prizes to loyal readers? (I’m not, but I would if I was!) Or maybe you just think I sound funny and want something new to laugh at every few days.

I have had a healthy dose of both organised tours and independent travel, I will write on both ends of the spectrum as well as all the nitty gritty in between. I will write lists, I will write reviews, I will write opinion pieces, and I will write about things that interest the readers! (That’s you)

 

Please check back, and let me know what you think!